SLS 22RS-2493 ORIGINAL 2022 Regular Session SENATE RESOLUTION NO. 98 BY SENATOR CORTEZ CONDOLENCES. Expresses sincere and heartfelt condolences upon the passing of James Pitman Hesterly Jr. 1 A RESOLUTION 2 To express the sincere and heartfelt condolences of the Senate of the Legislature of 3 Louisiana upon the passing of James Pitman Hesterly Jr. 4 WHEREAS, James Pitman Hesterly Jr., was born on August 31, 1950, in Alexandria, 5 Louisiana, to Mary Moselle Alexander Hesterly and James Pitman Hesterly Sr.; and, as a 6 baby, his parents nicknamed him "Pit", a name that remained his moniker for life; and 7 WHEREAS, Pit's family moved to Lafayette, Louisiana, in 1962, and from that time, 8 beginning in the sixth grade, Pit left a legacy in Lafayette as a trustworthy and honorable 9 man, one who embraced life's gifts; and 10 WHEREAS, Pit was the most elegant man his family had ever known and he taught 11 his sons many lessons, including the fact that a navy blue blazer, a black belt, and black 12 shoes should be staples in every gentleman's wardrobe; and 13 WHEREAS, Pit wore his clothes with sartorial splendor, complementing his 14 charming speech and magnetic personality; Pit was known for his exquisite taste in Italian 15 fabrics, his appreciation for fine leather, sterling belt buckles, and hand-fashioned hats; he 16 loved alligator shoes and a nice pair of sunglasses which he occasionally even wore indoors; 17 and 18 WHEREAS, a patron of the arts and a true Renaissance Man, Pit loved all things Page 1 of 5 SR NO. 98 SLS 22RS-2493 ORIGINAL 1 beautiful; he supported local artists and considered himself a modest collector; he loved 2 visiting museums and galleries and exposing his family to cultural enrichment; and 3 WHEREAS, Pit fostered the love of music in his wife and children, showing them 4 the joy of listening to Pavarotti, Motown, Broadway musicals, and Irish folk songs; and 5 WHEREAS, Pit enjoyed reading and writing poetry; he frequently shared with 6 friends poems written by the one and only "Shakespeare Thibodeaux" a favorite pseudonym; 7 and 8 WHEREAS, Pit established J. P. Hesterly Jr. and Associates in 1980 as a brokerage 9 house offering independent petroleum land services for clients in Louisiana and Texas; and 10 WHEREAS, Pit employed countless men and women, giving a number of landmen 11 their first job in the business; his ease of manner and kindness to each employee made him 12 a most endearing boss; Pit's business associates became his close friends as he forged 13 lifelong relationships with the finest professionals in the land business; and his gifts of 14 stewardship, blessings that Pit recognized every single day, cannot be overstated; and 15 WHEREAS, Pit became a runner in 1981 after drafting a dear friend, Tom Hopkins, 16 to be his roommate and coach; together they formed "Hopkins Harriers", training with a 17 faithful group of athletes for many years; and Pit successfully competed in numerous road 18 races, marathons, biathlons, and triathlons across the South; and 19 WHEREAS, Pit took great pleasure in authoring a column in the newsletter of Red 20 Lerille's Health and Racquet Club (Red's) entitled "Feets of Endurance" and when Pit was 21 forced to quit running due to health issues, he began swimming at Red's where he enjoyed 22 a new camaraderie; Pit's athleticism, accompanied by his fierce competitive spirit, laid the 23 foundation for countless friendships; and 24 WHEREAS, Pit adored sports, especially golf, college basketball and football, major 25 league baseball, and horse racing; his impressive collection of sports memorabilia was only 26 rivaled by his ability to recite the important dates, players, and statistics of his favorite 27 teams; and 28 WHEREAS, Pit hosted the Hesterly Invitational Golf Tournament for many years; 29 he loved to attend live sporting events with his family, especially high stakes Louisiana State 30 University football games; he attended several World Series games to watch his beloved Page 2 of 5 SR NO. 98 SLS 22RS-2493 ORIGINAL 1 Giants; he walked the hallowed ground of Augusta National many times; and he graced 2 Churchill Downs with his presence more than once at the Kentucky Derby - perhaps his 3 favorite event of all; and 4 WHEREAS, as both a coach and a mentor, Pit gave freely and lovingly to a 5 generation of young men who crossed his path; his coaching career began with his son 6 Pitman at Woodvale T-ball and extended on the soccer field until his son Miles graduated 7 from high school; and with his coaching partner, Scott Yerby, they took the Lafayette Futbol 8 Club Arsenal team to the state championship more than once, winning the title in 2007; and 9 WHEREAS, Pit could spin a tale, display a vast knowledge of esoteric topics, quote 10 Shakespeare, sing the entire musical score from Oklahoma!, command the Scrabble board, 11 spell like a champion, and name world capitals with ease; and 12 WHEREAS, his brilliance shone in his mastery of the English language; nobody 13 could turn a phrase, assign a nickname, or describe life with humor and a beautiful 14 perspective like Pit; he made life better, he made it easier, and he made it more wonderful; 15 and 16 WHEREAS, Pit was humble, never seeking accolades or applause; he served many 17 people of all walks of life and gave generously to his family and friends; and 18 WHEREAS, he preferred to give rather than to receive, and his favorite moments 19 were treating his family to a fine meal, a glorious trip, or a long journey on the road; he lived 20 to create lasting memories for his wife Elizabeth, and their sons, Pitman and Miles; and 21 WHEREAS, Pit's heart was full of love for his fellow man, most notably evident in 22 his intense desire to help people suffering with addiction; having gone through treatment for 23 substance abuse himself, Pit felt led by God to help others who struggled; and with God's 24 guidance, he supported them to find a new life of sobriety; and 25 WHEREAS, Pit cherished his church, Episcopal Church of Ascension, and he loved 26 his church family who prayed for him faithfully for twenty-five years; and 27 WHEREAS, Pit was a graduate of Disciples of Christ in Community and served the 28 Lord well at Ascension: as a vestry member and Junior Warden, as co-chairman of the 29 Capital Campaign, as an usher and youth minister, as a member of the Men's Club, as a 30 stewardship volunteer, and as a student of God's word in the adult Bible study class on Page 3 of 5 SR NO. 98 SLS 22RS-2493 ORIGINAL 1 Sunday mornings; and 2 WHEREAS, Pit served on the board of directors of the Lafayette Town House, the 3 Acadiana Symphony Orchestra, and The Well; Pit participated in Relay for Life as a team 4 member as runners ran through the night raising money for the American Cancer Society; 5 he organized the Games of Acadian Triathlon, enlisting the help of many local runners to 6 benefit The Miles Perret Center; he was a former member of Oakbourne Country Club and 7 Escondido in the Hill Country of Texas, two places where he showcased his love of golf with 8 friends; and 9 WHEREAS, Pit is survived by his wife of almost thirty-eight years, Elizabeth 10 O'Roark Hesterly; his son James Pitman Hesterly III, his wife Natalie Tuminello and their 11 soon-to-be-born daughter, Grace Elizabeth Hesterly; his son Miles Crocker Hesterly, his 12 wife Courtney Sykes and their newborn son Charles McConnell Hesterly; his sister Cynthia 13 Hesterly Powell and her husband Richard Powell; his sister-in-law Kay Hesterly; his brother 14 William Stephens Hesterly and his wife Denise Anderson; his sister Mary Hesterly Frantz 15 and her husband Steve Frantz; his father-in-law Walter O'Roark Jr.; his mother-in-law Betsy 16 Vigorito; his brother-in-law Walter O'Roark III and his wife Bell deGravelle; his sister-in- 17 law Rebecca O'Roark Voyles and her husband Russell Voyles; and numerous nieces and 18 nephews who loved him like a father; and 19 WHEREAS, Pit is also survived by Drew Saab and Parker Reaux, two young men 20 he loved as honorary sons; his special friend Marie Oury who he considered his French 21 daughter; and his little ballerina "Adelaide," his cherished Sheltie; and 22 WHEREAS, Pit is also predeceased by his beloved brother John Joseph Hesterly with 23 whom he shared a special bond and who walked with him through a difficult journey with 24 grace; Pit counted on John for his exceptional professional skills, faithful companionship, 25 and the godly devotion of a best friend; their dual diagnoses might have shattered a lesser 26 pair of men, yet they held onto each other in prayer and faith, exhibiting inspirational 27 strength, courage, and fortitude; and 28 WHEREAS, James Pitman Hesterly Jr. lived a fulfilling and dedicated life and his 29 passing leaves a void in the community where he will be truly missed. 30 THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED that the Senate of the Legislature of Louisiana Page 4 of 5 SR NO. 98 SLS 22RS-2493 ORIGINAL 1 does hereby express sincere and heartfelt condolences upon the passing of 2 James Pitman Hesterly Jr. 3 BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED that a copy of this Resolution be transmitted to his 4 wife, Elizabeth O'Roark Hesterly. The original instrument and the following digest, which constitutes no part of the legislative instrument, were prepared by Kathy Liberty. DIGEST SR 98 Original 2022 Regular Session Cortez Expresses the sincere and heartfelt condolences of the Senate of the Legislature of Louisiana upon the passing of James Pitman Hesterly Jr. Page 5 of 5